Embracing the adventure of living one question, one connection, and one moment at a time.
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The Girl Behind the Blog
I am Janessa!
It has been my life’s mission to create a positive impact on the world. After graduating college, I was left with my thoughts and feelings of emptiness. I was conflicted with where I belong in the big, vast world.
That’s when it hit me! I will start this blog to explore ideas and connect with like-minded people who feel the same loneliness I do. In the midst of what kind of week you’re having, you can always count on me to bring the right amount of fun!
Recent Works We Explore Together:
I used to call myself an introvert, not because I didn’t like people—but because I didn’t know how to be fully seen. After years of hiding behind that label (and a pandemic that stalled everything), I’m finally finding my way back. This post is about relearning how to talk, connect, and just be comfortable with myself—and realizing I’m not the only one still figuring it out.
This weekend, away from service and screens, I realized how much time I spend scrolling through other people's lives — and how little I actually sit in my own. Here’s what a camping trip taught me about stillness, presence, and the quiet moments we tend to avoid.
This week I witnessed just how deep our collective anxiety runs—especially in the next generation. Behind the screens and silence is a feeling we all know too well. It’s not just a “kids these days” issue; it’s a mirror. And if we don’t start facing it now, we risk losing more than attention spans—we lose real connection.
This year, I made a quiet promise to myself: to show up more, connect deeper, and maybe even build something lasting. Inspired by The Parable of the Sower, I’ve been reflecting on what it really means to create community—not just to find like-minded people, but to grow with those willing to care, sacrifice, and trust. For the first time, I feel open. Not just in posture, but in mindset. And that shift is changing everything.
A reflection on the emotional math of adulthood—deciding whether an experience is worth the cost. It explores the tension between saving for the future and living in the moment, through the lens of a concert I almost didn’t attend. From front-row euphoria to quiet financial guilt, it’s about the choices we make, the ones we nearly miss, and the memories that remind us what it means to feel alive.
Traditions don’t have to be inherited—they can be invented. From sitcom rituals to quiet moments with family, I’ve been thinking about how we make meaning from the ordinary. It’s not about waiting for the calendar to tell you what’s important. It’s about choosing to make something matter. This week, I’m reflecting on intentionality, effort, and the beautiful, silly ways we create traditions of our own.
Growth begins the moment you question what you’ve always accepted as true—even if it’s just your hate for eggs.
Philosophy 60 wasn’t just a crash course in propositional logic—it was a deep dive into how we build, challenge, and refine ideas. Through the chaos of conditional statements and the beauty of growth, I learned that progress isn’t linear; it’s about embracing the process and trusting the journey.
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Welcome to the world of TUT
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Nothing to listen to?
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IYKYK
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Dance + Sing
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Co-Collective Friends
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(Florence + the Machine Edition)
In a world where everything feels like it’s been done, said, or posted before, the idea of being original can feel impossible — like chasing smoke. Algorithms tell us what to wear, how to think, and what’s worth sharing. But somewhere underneath the mimicry and marketability, there's still a pulse of something real. This post is a search for that pulse — through identity, society, and connection — and a reminder that originality isn’t about escaping influence, but transforming it into something unmistakably you.