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Walking on Conversational Eggshells: Silence to True Self
I used to call myself an introvert, not because I didn’t like people—but because I didn’t know how to be fully seen. After years of hiding behind that label (and a pandemic that stalled everything), I’m finally finding my way back. This post is about relearning how to talk, connect, and just be comfortable with myself—and realizing I’m not the only one still figuring it out.
An Old Friend: Anxiety & Accountability
This week I witnessed just how deep our collective anxiety runs—especially in the next generation. Behind the screens and silence is a feeling we all know too well. It’s not just a “kids these days” issue; it’s a mirror. And if we don’t start facing it now, we risk losing more than attention spans—we lose real connection.
Parable of the Belonging: Giving Space
This year, I made a quiet promise to myself: to show up more, connect deeper, and maybe even build something lasting. Inspired by The Parable of the Sower, I’ve been reflecting on what it really means to create community—not just to find like-minded people, but to grow with those willing to care, sacrifice, and trust. For the first time, I feel open. Not just in posture, but in mindset. And that shift is changing everything.
Guests in the Home I Built: Childhood Home to Chosen One
The Art of Hosting: From Homebody to Party Starter
Committed to the Bit: Love, Growth, and the Three C’s
Falling Behind or Was I Just Finding Myself?
Only Take Advice From Friend Or Foe?
Mirror, Mirror on the Wall, Are We Friends or Not?
Heated Debates or Did Curiosity Save the Friendship?
Live, Laugh, Love or Is There No Authenticity in the Digital Age?
Do Work and Friendship Mix or Am I Missing Something?
On my quest to better myself, I've been stepping out of my shell and meeting new people—especially at work. I've had coworker friends before, but they never made it beyond the office walls. It’s like the awkwardness of seeing your teachers outside of school until you break the ice. But once trust is built, that's when the real fun begins. Curious about navigating the tricky boundaries of coworker friendships and breaking free from workplace dynamics?
Rethinking Adult Friendships or Redefining Quality Time?
Where the Stars Align or Do You Search for Compatibility Elsewhere?
Unveiling the Astrological Secrets of Friendship: Explore how zodiac signs shape compatibility and bond formation. Delve into personal anecdotes and reflections, revealing the profound impact of astrology on relationships, complemented by a captivating song of the week.
You Got Time To Chat or Are You Closed?
this post, I reflect on my journey as a creative soul, navigating the ups and downs of artistic expression and the pressure to meet societal expectations. As someone who has always loved hands-on art, I explore the disconnection I’ve felt lately between my creative passions and the content I produce online. I dive into the history of art’s transformation, from craftsmanship to aesthetics, and how this shift influences our modern views of creativity. Ultimately, I question the fine line between authenticity and external perception, as I search for a way to reconnect with the joy of creating simply for the sake of expression.
Unveiling Secrets or Are You a Part of The Journey?
In my 20th post, I reflect on the journey that brought The Unfinished Times to life, sharing the behind-the-scenes process of how I balance procrastination with my love for writing. From the early days of brainstorming to the final touches on my music covers, I reveal the creative flow that keeps me going each week. I also delve into the heart of why I write—how journaling and music have helped me process my emotions, and how I hope my blog creates a space where others can feel seen and heard. Looking ahead, I’m excited to expand this blog into the Co-Collective, a community where we can collaborate, grow, and express ourselves together.
Do You Want Friend Groups or Is That a Thing of The Past?
The concept of friendship groups, inspired by her binge-watching of How I Met Your Mother. She dives into the challenges of forming meaningful connections in today's world, especially in cities like Sacramento where the lack of "third places" makes casual hangouts harder to come by. Through a mix of humor and nostalgia, Janessa explores the importance of putting effort into friendships, rejecting the myth that a smaller group is always better, and embracing the chaos and love of larger circles.
Do You Suck At Making Friends or Is It Just Me?
Friendships are more than casual connections; they’re relationships without the romance, rooted in trust, intimacy, and a willingness to let down our walls.
Are You a Misfit or Just Misunderstood?
I have this urge to fit in with everyone but simply cannot and never will. I tried different people never the right fit for me. I find myself shrinking or expanding beyond my capabilities. Now, I’m learning that true connection isn’t about convenience—it’s about intention.
Are You Into Stars or Are You a Skeptic?
Astrology may not hold up to scientific scrutiny, but its ancient wisdom still resonates deeply with how we understand ourselves, our families, and the connections that shape our lives.